[Fertility & Birth] An IVF and Surrogacy Rollercoaster Birth Story, with Parijat Deshpande

Parijat Deshpande’s first pregnancy was extremely complicated and risky, with her micropreemie son being born at 24 weeks. So when it came to doing it again, the seemingly easier option was to use a surrogate. Or so they thought.

Listen as Parijat takes us on an unbelievable rollercoaster of emotions that led to her taking home a healthy, full term baby girl. Check it out.

 

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What we talked about:

  • Parijat’s fertility journey
  • A very difficult, high-risk first pregnancy
  • Fighting for his life during his first 109 days
  • Do I want to do this again? Is it even safe to do it again?
  • The relief from getting confirmation that her body shouldn’t do it again
  • Now what? Exploring surrogacy
  • Going through several rounds, several agencies, several miscarriages
  • “Something is not right.”
  • Going from 9 embryos to 1, seemingly overnight
  • “Can we live with that?”
  • Riding the extreme emotional rollercoaster, once again
  • All down the the slowest growing embryo
  • Giving up hope
  • “Could you double check you’re speaking to the right person?”
  • The uniqueness of experiencing a pregnancy through a surrogate
  • “That’s our baby? We get to take her home?!”
  • Feeling like first time parents
  • Parenting a fully grown newborn, mourning the differences from the experience with her son
  • Learning to reshape her identity as a mother

First night home with her baby girl!

 

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About Parijat Deshpande

Parijat Deshpande is the leading high-risk pregnancy expert, mind-body health specialist, speaker and author who guides women to manage their pregnancy complications so they can give their baby a strong start to life. Her unique approach has served hundreds of women to manage pregnancy complications and reclaim a safety and trust in their bodies that they thought was eroded forever. Parijat is the author of bestselling book Pregnancy Brain: A Mind-Body Approach to Stress Management During a High-Risk Pregnancy. She is also the host of the popular podcast Delivering Miracles®, that discusses the real, raw side of family-building including infertility, loss, high-risk pregnancy, bed rest, prematurity and healing once baby comes home.

Learn more at parijatdeshpande.com

 


 

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